islam is making me depressed

Dua: Allaahumma rahmataka arjoo falaa takilnee ilaa nafsee tarfata 'ayn. http://lifecoachingbyali.blogspot.co.uk/2014/11/surviving-through-depression.html?m=1. Whatever the case, if you can help- help. Living with them has made me depressed. Confidence is a mask that can easily peel when your confidence is grounded in designer clothes, makeup, you looks, your friends i.e. its not as bad as shirk so maybe Allah will forgive it? We have to listen to ourselves and be truthful to ourselves about how we feel, like how you did in this post. Islam plays an important role in helping Muslims to cope with negative life events, which helps them in both prevention and treatment of depression. I am only conveying the importance of hiding our sins. Salam to you and everyone. Insha Allah. Or is it Social Media? Verse 65:2-3 doesn’t say we don’t need a psychologist. Don’t let satan put thoughts in our head and tell ourselves we are not good enough, we don’t have anyone or anything like that. It is not up to you to judge yourself and if you deserve to be punished or not, that is Allahs role in our lives. Salaam. I’m going to make sure that it comes to the attention of society that it’s real and people need help. Make Allah and the Quran your support. And then I got clinical depression. I can’t talk to my family because they won’t understand and they have their own things to worry about. The first thing that will be asked on the Day of Judgement is: I am a twenty-four year old woman. Sometimes someone wants to be understood or maybe just listened too. And Allah SWA is the best of physicians and He had the cure for all ailments. I know everyone has there own story.. and I may sound positive in this post, but we have to motivate each other, and I pray God gives every single person who suffers from any condition mentally or physically shifa/ cure. Bottom line please seek help from integrative doctors. Psychiatrists know suicide is always an option for the depressed, so they are careful when they medicate. How can this be a test from Allah when there is seemingly no correct answer? I lied that I miscarried his baby…how can I earn his forgiveness? The only issue was that some days were good, and others were awful. Yes, unquestionably Allah (swt) knows best. Though everyone says “Islam is moderation”, the scholars do seem to preach that. Tell them they are not alone. If chess no longer is fun, take a break. I would love to get to know you more, if you don’t mind of course. I have absolutely nothing to use for adulthood. New articles are added every week. Sometimes all you need is to have your pain acknowledged for what it is, without being offered (false) promises of ‘The Remedy’ for it. They do not want to be a burden to you. So dont unveil the cover of allah. I would like to help you , I have gone through dépression myself and it destroyed many years of my life . It is something that only people who are dealing with anxiety and depression would ever understand. I have faith in Allah as the one and only God, but I don’t see how things will be better for me. Did you make all of your 5 prayers, and if not do you have any other prayers to make up for them? I read this with tears as it really feels as if someone has written my hidden feelings out. And if it wasn’t meant to pass because Allah SWA knows best, I could’ve died studying and I still wouldn’t have passed. Right now and for years all I know is it hurts; if anyone could shed light I would be grateful. Lovely article. For a while I’ve been wondering to myself why wouldn’t it exist? I know Allah wants me to be happy.. May Allah cure us of our sadness. The other point is about Allah’s mercy. I can’t speak for medication but like I said therapy really helped. I have always thought someone will understand what i have gone through. Maybe overdose on my medications. However, since I have felt the similar issues of not wanting to open up about my feelings and I have had depression get in the way of my Ibadah, I would like to share my thoughts on this. Even the way we are percieved by others can affect it. But as of now, the preaching of many of them has turned my life upside down. My body weight has decreased significantly and no matter how much I sleep, I still feel really lethargic. you have the strength …whatever the problem is i just dont care …next moment it is gone by the grace of Allah. Surah Yusuf (Prophet Yusuf ) is the 12th sura (chapter) of the Quran. It is said to have been revealed in a single sitting, being unique in this respect. The text narrates the story of Yusuf (the biblical Joseph). Brothers and sisters Im so tired. We are so occupied with our negative thoughts and problems to the extent that we have no urge to do anything. Lou08end. You are so very young. Keep busy, find a job if you are not working. every job I started, I would quit, likewise it was so torturous to complete a degree and I needed so many accommodations, and dropped many projects. I have come to the conclusion Allah hates or does not care about me. It’s always difficult to see the rainbow during a storm but there must be a hikmah behind all this. We are still alive though and tests may break us and cause us to fall but we also have the ability to recover and get back up. Report any new or worsening symptoms to your doctor, such as: mood or behavior changes, anxiety, panic attacks, trouble sleeping, or if you feel impulsive, irritable, agitated, hostile, aggressive, restless, hyperactive (mentally or physically), more depressed, or have thoughts about suicide or hurting yourself. It takes awhile to establish a relationship where you feel safe opening up to another. I feel empty inside. Indeed you may smile at the way allah covered it for you and cherish. People tell me to have faith. It tells them: “You are worthless. But I’ve always refused to believe that Allah (swt) if he knew me and my heart that he would just chuck me aside and deem me and my emotions irrelevant. I am afried of giving up… You just can’t see through the forest for the trees at this moment. Anyone in your condition would probably give up reciting the Quran or praying or going to islamic lectures. I have been raising them since they were born. I've already lost my father nd i don't wanna loose my mumma. In the end people say I don’t listen if I said that I can’t feel happy no matter what. First, let's get one thing out of the way. 1) Visiting a psychiatrist and take meds. Forever I’ve found it so hard to just explain how I feel. And Allah knows best. BY NO MEANS WHATEVER do all episodes indicate hospitalization. my symptoms of depression disappeared. As mentioned previously that I’m quite negative now so sometimes I would unintentionally blabber some mean things and whenever we fight now he’ll always say that I have an ugly heart and I’m born like that. If you are a sister they have a transition home with 3month stys and free groceries and job search help in Ontario and B.C I did see a psychiatrist but I was asked to take medication to avoid myself from being in the depressed state. Regarding your symptoms, I would strongly suggest seeing a physician. We no nothing haram btw, we only have talked online for the past 3 years. Yes, Allah swt knows best, but I can only say that the only relief I ever got from my mental illness was from drugs, and, as I mentioned before, it was in the Middle Ages that Muslim doctors began serious treatment of mental illness. Its not over ’til the Trumpet is Blown – Sin and Repentance in Islam, The Sin of Fornication and Adultery – Part 1, The Sin of Adultery and Fornication – Part 2, The Sin of Adultery and Fornication – Part 3. I have no motivation to keep going. I have to maintain relationships, or else the loneliness will only get worse. I haven’t got a knack for anything really. I.e. It did help me a lot to feel better about my situation. Chess is a game. 6) BE THANKFUL (Always remember Him like how he remembers you, he loves you NO MATTER WHAT and He knows whats inside our little hearts). well said. Then, Allah ordered the angels to measure the distance between his body and the two villages. May Allah help all of us through this. As I mentioned in an earlier response, back when the Europeans (and I am European) were living in near squalor, Muslim doctors were treating the mentally ill with professional compassion. If they don’t im sure another mosque will. Look at America, UK, Iran, Iraq, Syria, Lebanon, Egypt, Turkey, Pakistan, Bangladesh! I once did the same thing about two weeks back but I ended up feeling depressed and ashamed of myself after sharing my experience with the aim of letting others know that there is hope and that they are not alone in suffering this problem of depression. I think it will give us a lot of hope thank you!! But wondered why did Muslims who practiced their faith regularly […] Crafts? Im not going to mention my history here because its not a competition. The authors are not responsible or liable for the intentional, reckless, or negligent actions of any individual. I used to be a positive person & never thought I could get depressed & my imaan would always protect me, which is makes me guilty at times, is how I’m feeling because of deficiencies in my imaan. Peace (salaam alaikum). I feel a deep pain in my heart that seems to be numbed to that feeling forever. So i left my parents house and decided to live with my grandparents in another state for a little while. It’s in fact quite the opposite. My mom is just a beauty. I want to tell everything to my parents but I can't. Sometimes that’s what’s needed for a brief time. asak,wrwb,, I am facing a real challenge now. Having so much trust in Allah (SWT). I never shared any of my writings earlier and they were always on my private blog as I thought that no one might be going through anything similar. I stopped looking for the answers. Sometimes it is our own mind that has the false perception that others are judging us when what might be going on is that they don’t know how to connect and interact with us. You are a Muslim. Please be careful with what you read, watch on TV, listen to, etc. I am really grateful for this article…I, like many others havent been able to actually put into words the feelings I have been struggling with for so long. I know this is not necessarily the best thing to do in order to find answers, but I thought I would go ahead and try this method. See? Because Allah swt can send even the impossible person to help us! SubhanAllah, that article really kept me on the edge of my seat. He is an enemy that does not want you to ever ‘ve happy. About 2 years ago, i had this kind of thing. I am tired of my family…. But then when we talked on Skype he started to ask for things he asked me to take off my cloths so that he masturbates, I was in love n trusted him so I did. Allah knows your intentions and He knows how difficult this can be for you. Whenever the evil voice of Shaytaan enters your mind and starts to make you think evil thoughts about Allah, slam the door on Shaytaan’s face. JazakAllah khayr for sharing your story. I’m still struggling as well in getting help from others when I’m offered help or even to ask for their support when my thoughts are haywire. Keep in mind it does require you to have headphones to listen to them in order for them to be effective. It is of the utmost importance that people know the difference between sadness and depression; sadness is a typical human emotion and depression is a much more damaging and longer lasting condition of hopelessness, despair, and dejection. i also want to talk with someone,i have noone to talk with,if u want we can talk. I guess that maybe you could convince yourself to speak to your family members if the feelings are eating you up on the inside? accumulate.”, Say, “With the grace of Allah and with His mercy (this book has been revealed). But, shifting your focus from the negative aspect of losing weight to the positive mindset of making healthy food choices in order to fuel your body can make a big improvement to your mental health. I know many would disagree, “depression a blessing?”. I know I can’t ask Him to take my life, so I ask Him what I’m allowed to: “Grant me life as long as it is good for me, and grant me death when it is better for me.” Always hoping the latter is what is better. I have studied Islam and comparative ideologies for 4 years, served my MSA and online dawah causes, as well helped a homeless Muslims. A believer is rewarded based on the effort, not the result. Isa, How it is affecting your life? I feel like I was reading my own story.. Instead of doing the things which are Haram (not permissible or against Quran and Sunnah), make sure you save these duas and recite these 5 Duas whenever you feel Sadness, Stressed, and Depressed. My husband neglects my needs and takes no responsibility for it! But the truth is, I am still too scared of Allah (swt) and the Hellfire to ever commit such a sin. I feel very lonely and as if nothing could make me happy, even though I offer all the obligatory prayers, even Fajr on time, I pray qiyam al-layl, I read a juz of Quran every day in order to complete it once every month, I try to draw closer to Allah and I have performed 'Umrah . I find that it’s causestill can be high expectations we set for ourselves and life. They tell me that whenever there is a calamity, Allah’s wisdom is in it, and that in the end it was for the better. I request all bros n sisters to help this little sis of u r’s fo taking a right decision in lyf…..do read my commnt n help me n guide m….. Know that depression lies to the sufferer. And do some dhikr when your thoughts become over bearing. I agree with the part about it being hard to share this with loved ones and family because everyone’s either gonna call us weak and many other things that make things worse. i need someone too. You should some how get hold of them and read them constantly ( on a daily basis). I spend so much time taking care of other people’s feelings that i can’t express anything real coming from the heart, my family judges me for whatever i speak and do. The latest post on “The Depression Cloud.”. Religion? So if anyone is tempted to kill themselves, it won’t work. Sister, peace be with you (salaam alaikum). What is God seriously expecting? It’s such a beautiful thing…and maybe videos about our mothers, al qiyamah and what happens in our graves. ) He’s also a muslim (practicing sometimes) and I’ve always confided in him. So let’s fight the satan’s whispers, keep him locked out of our hearts and may Allah swt heal our hearts, ease our burdens and grant us mercy. I hope that helps. Many times I feel that I am really suffering in silence. E.g. Verily with hardship comes ease.” [94:5-6]. I used to be an agnostic and recently came back to Islam alhamdulillah with the help of a friend. I have cared for someone who is sick and developed stress, depression and anxiety myself. At times, i was confuse if having back my emotions again was a good thing. im having the same feeling but i cant describe it to anyone. So I decided to grab the quran because people on the internet are always saying that the solution is in the quran. You have no say in what happens from day to day. I really need a counsellor but can’t get one for now and i can’t explain why.. Hello again. It’s really difficult. My parents want me to come home, but that is not an option for me. Friends and family. However, with this, no one asks, no one understands because they don’t know how it feels. My parents are now divorced and my mother is getting re-married. Happiness is the state of mind, we only live once and we only have ONE chance to make it right. Salam. A religious guy who taught you Islam and Islamic dresses, used you for sex. That is according to Islam. I just know they need to get stronger than they already are. It’s more of a self diagnosis, I read the article and most of the comments posted and I can’t help but relate. You've just woken up. Like you I pray 5 times day and continue to say istighfaar all day but I still have this anxious feeling inside of me . Whether you are the one suffering or someone around you is. I can relate to the article 100% because i was going through it for years. May Allah swt grant you and all people with illness shifa … ameen. Just be there. You have total mastery over me), Your command over me is forever executed and Your decree over me is just.” I ask You by every name belonging to You which You named Yourself with, or revealed in Your Book, or You taught to any of Your creation, or You have preserved in the knowledge of the unseen with You, that You make the Qur’an the life of my heart and the light of my bosom, and a departure for my sorrow and a release for my anxiety. So look at the options Allah has left those who have depression with: I can speak form the experience of one has lived with it for ever so many years. I spend most of my time alone. Its sad , and hard how your loves one doesn’t understand became of you. Asalamo Alaykom, I would really appreciate some advise, my son who is 33 years of age been in Islam for 10 years reading Quran, done lots of charity and read the good book when he could but did not do his prayers consistently so now since we have the pandemic he feels that this is a sign of god in reference to Sura 6 verse 158 and since he did not do his prayers and did not make a positive connection with Allah before the pandemic that now he is destined to Hell based on verse 158, few wise people in our family have explained to him what that verse really means and strictly for disbelievers, he constantly sees himself as a disbeliever and can not get rid of the fear of Hell, no matter how much i tell him about how god is merciful, compassionate and forgiving he refuses to listen, he says that he had 10 years to get righteous and he goofed off and now he will pay the price. I am afried of losing my faith… But I am at an edge. I still make those duas to no avail. He has a plan for all of us, in due time we will see the hikmah. Wallahi When I opened my eyes, the word my finger was placed directly on was “fasbir”. Al-Balki explains symptoms and treatments giving advice on preventive measures and how to return the body and soul to their natural healthy state. Medical psychiatrists and, yes, their drugs helped me when all else failed. Not being egoistic but I know I’m not like that and I used to be a very very very happy girl. I dnt want to feel lonely anymore and this is the one thing I am struggling with. The paranoia about photos etc is also an illusion- wouldnt you have seen the pictures and heard about it by now? In a survey of 1,787 adults between 19 and 32, researchers . I am tired of my life… My enraged husband has abandoned me at my parents’ place! OP: a long distance relationship...... we met, he forced me to do same sins, I told it is against our religion, he was also a religious person, he taught me more about islam, islamic dresses, I trusted him.

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